Why Do Men Cheat On Their Partners?Are you a person who suspects
that your Bf is cheating on you?
If you do, you may be interested in
catching them red-handed.
But, first, you may have a
number of questions.
One of the most common questions
Prompt by womens who have
been cheated on is “why do men cheat?”
When it comes to knowing the right reason
why men cheat on their wives or their girlfriends,
it is difficult to come up with an specific reason.
Why?
Because men cheat for a wide
range of different reasons.
For example, your boyfriend may
cheat for one reason, but one another man
may be cheating for a whole other reason.
get me? (:
thou it is difficult to determine why,
let me share with you guys some reasons
to why SOME Men just feel like cheating girls.
One:
Freedom.
He has found another women,
also called a mistress, to do what
his wife/gf won't do, or doesn't do well.
Two:
Emotional support.He has found another women to
make him feel attractive, sexy, smart.
Often, a relationship becomes stale
and boring, and the sense of excitement
and anticipation that was originally
there has waned. He has become bored
with her, and wants to feel and be wanted
by someone that wants him. The other woman
is an expert in providing emotional support.
Three:Unmet Needs.
The wife/gf gives the 80%,
but the other woman gives
him the missing but strongly desired 20%.
A man will likely cheat with someone
that shares (or at least pretends) his views
and his interests. Although the wife/gf
may have sacrificed, given him children,
and given her best, that is
the problem- she gave her best.
Her best works for her, not for some.
Wives/gf often will give their husbands/bf
what they want them to have,
without ever considering whether
what wives/gf wantsare what husband/bf wants.
Too often wives/gf will kill their
own marriages/r'thsip by failing to ask the
husband/bf what do YOU want?
Unfulfilled desiresis another common reason
why some men cheat.
In these instances, men do not want
to end their relationship with
their girlfriend or wife.
In fact, they may truly love their
significant other, it’s just that their
desires aren’t being fulfilled.
All individuals, including both
men and women, have sexual desires.
If those desires aren’t being met at home,
a man may turn elsewhere.
Aside from the sexual standpoint
and the act of cheating, these types of men
often have otherwise healthy relationships at home.
Four:Ego.
Men cheat to see if they still "got it".
It is a thrill and a rush to know that
a woman that is more attractive,
sensual, conversant, and
intellectually pleasing than
the wife/gf, is interested in them.
To think that she wants to
be my lover, is a huge ego boost.
Five:Revenge
Men will cheat when they feel that
they have been wronged.
It may be that the wife/gf spends
too much time at work,is too tired,
or has a headache, or just "lays there".
Men will cheat in order to exact
revenge for either real or perceived
violations to their emotional needs.
Six:Fear. 
Some men cheat because they
fear the intimacy that a one on
one relationship brings.
Or, they cheat to keep
from being hurt again.
Having another woman
around as a spare, just in case
this relationship goes south,
for some men, is standard operating procedure.
Lastly:ConvenienceUnfortunately, many wives and girlfriends
make the mistake of assuming that affairs
are long-term term and last for weeks,
months or years. In fact, a large percentage
of men who cheat only have what is
commonly referred to as one night stands.
This is when they have sexual relations
with another woman and return home
to you, possibly never seeing that
woman again.As for why men have
one night stands, many do so because
it is convenient and because they can.
Also, in these types of situations,
alcohol is typically a factor.
So,what do you think? (: